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On Being Agender – Update December, 2016

Being Me I originally wrote this two years ago and since then some things have changed and/or I have become more comfortable with. I want to clarify what my particular gender identity is and is not. For me it’s about … Continue reading

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Your Non-Binary Gender Identity Is Valid No Matter Your Age

It doesn’t matter when you discover a non-binary gender identity, your identity is valid no matter if your in high school or in a retirement home. I have seen plenty of ridicule aimed at teens and young adults who have … Continue reading

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My Gender Unicorn 

Definitions: Gender Identity: Gender Identity: One’s internal sense of being male, female, neither of these, both, or another gender(s). Everyone has a gender identity, including you. For transgender people, their sex assigned at birth and their own internal sense of gender … Continue reading

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This Blog Is Five Years Old!

It’s hard to believe this blog is now five. It is a reflection of my interests, passions and identities. These years included my coming out as Trans/Genderqueer/Agender, my coming out for the second time, (my first time coming out was … Continue reading

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Milestones: 60, 20 & 2

The following is the post I made on my Facebook page upon the occasion of my recent birthday. So, I am now 60. I’ve decided to embrace my new decade of life. I have lived through many interesting and marvelous … Continue reading

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Coming Out Again (part two) – Originally Posted to Facebook 

On my birthday last year I came out as trans and agender, (https://jerbearinsantafe.wordpress.com/2015/08/24/on-my-birthday-a-look-back/) but I am not sure everyone saw it. I want to briefly give a breakdown of events in my life that led to this decision. In the … Continue reading

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Moving From Online Advocacy To Public Advocacy For Non-Binary Gender Identified Students

Yesterday, Saturday, March 19th, I traveled down to Albuquerque to attend The Trans + Queer Thrive Education Conference (TQ Thrive). This event, sponsored by the New Mexico GSA Network and GLSEN – Albuquerque, focused on supporting trans and queer youth and … Continue reading

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Ready to Fight For Equality After Two Months Of Contemplation and Depression

 Every Winter I am prone to Seasonal Affective Disorder, the blahs and depression brought on by extended hours of darkness. This year a number of issues, both personal and in the trans and LGBTQIA communities conspired, (metaphorically), to make this years … Continue reading

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I’m Back And Catching Up On Fellow Bloggers Blogs

I am going through the many emails related to blog posting and sources I use as inspiration. Due to the sheer volume it may take me a few days to catch up. Once I catch up I’ll share a post … Continue reading

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An Update

I realise it’s been over a month since I posted. I have felt a bit disillusioned and depressed recently. It seemed that in the month of January there were more squabbles between LGBTQIA individuals and communities then there was cooperation. … Continue reading

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The New Fairy JerBear’s – Who I Am

I have finally made a decision to retitle this blog. I am moving away from the news aspect because there are so many news resources out there. What I am going to focus on are topics, videos and blog posts … Continue reading

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Brief Hiatus

I am in the process of evaluating how I want to precede with this blog. I am also dealing with some health issues. I am continuing to update my Tumblr but have not updated this blog in a week. I … Continue reading

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The Liebster Award

I have been nominated for a Liebster Award by the uniquely, fabulous Eleanor of A Belated Existence. So, feeling grateful and humbled, I’ll do my best to honor the distinction… Rules as follows: I Nominate the following blogs for The … Continue reading

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A Sad Day, A Sad Memory, A Sad Anniversary and A Shared History

By now many of you know that there was a day long ordeal with an “active shooter” at the Planned Parenthood Clinic in Colorado Springs, Colorado. News outlets are now reporting 2 civilians and one police officer have been killed … Continue reading

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One of the 21%

I am one of those 21% who avoid going out. I already had Anxiety/Panic Attack Disorder so the paranoia and fear brought on by trying to buck the gender binary and not try to “pass” as either a male or … Continue reading

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New Atheist Movement: Why Are Atheists So Hated?

Of all the things that describe me, being a Humanist/Atheist is the one that concerns or confuses people the most. I’m always hesitant to mention it if people don’t know this about me. Here in Santa Fe there are a … Continue reading

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A Bit of Catching Up To Do

I have been busy with my life in the real world. I have a whole bunch of great articles to reblog as we as a couple other posts so hang on.

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I Am Out As Agender To The World Because I’m in The New York Times Online — More Importantly, There Are Many Other Brave People Profiled!

OMG! I had submitted this to the New York Times several months ago when they were requesting stories from members of the Trans Community. Well, I never heard from them or I missed the email, so I thought it didn’t … Continue reading

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Film About AIDS Memorial Quilt Covers its Birth and Impact

Originally posted on O-blog-dee-o-blog-da:
AIDS Quilt Documentary The Last One Gears Up for Fall 2015 Screenings and 2016 National Youth Outreach Campaign Posted by Melanie Nathan, Oct 20, 2015.   Film Spotlights AIDS Memorial Quilt; Reveals Progress, Setbacks and Hope…

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4th Year Anniversary of This Blog

I received this congratulatory notice from WordPress informing me that I registered this site 4 years ago today. It has been quite an adventure and changed focus a bit after I came out as Agender. It as been filled with … Continue reading

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