Tag Archives: effeminaphobia

Gender Crisis (ft. Dion Yorkie) – Masculinity & Femininity

Two cis gay men, Calum McSwiggin and Dion Yorkie, talk about how restrictive gender role expectations impact their lives. A very refreshing discussion and one more gay men should have. Advertisements

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Bamby Salcedo: Someone spat on me at Target because I’m transgender

Sadly trans women, trans femme non-binary gender identified persons and effeminate gay man are targets of three intertwined prejudices: homophobia, transphobia and effeminaphobia then you add transmisogyny into the mix and you have the recipe for unprovoked attacks. It’s a … Continue reading

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Is It Okay for Men to Be Feminine?

A fabulous video by Justin Dennis: Yes, it’s totally okay for men to be feminine. If you’re a man and you’ve ever been told you’re not “manly” enough, this video is for you. I address five main questions you might … Continue reading

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The Top Eight Effeminate Badasses

I love this video for addressing effeminophobia and for a look at some effeminate badasses on the silver screen, cartoons and anime.

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Feminine Men Not Wanted | First Person #5 | PBS Digital Studios

Kristin Russo talks with artist and drag performer, Donald Shorter, creator, writer and star of the one-woman show, GENDEROSITY, about his experience as a gender non-conforming gay man, misogyny and hyper-masculinity among gay men, gay sex apps and more. In … Continue reading

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When a Little Kid Gives Adults a Lesson In Humanity… – The Meta Picture

This photo was first displayed here at The Meta Picture: http://themetapicture.com/when-a-little-kid-gives-adults-a-lesson-in-humanity/

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Atheist transphobia: Superstition over science

An interesting discussion about atheist who hold onto cultural prejudices like transphobia, despite the lack of any obvious morality based objection.

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Say No to Sissyphobia

First some background; Sissyphobia or Effeminaphobia  (also spelled effeminophobia) is a lingering problem among masculine cisgender gay men. It is a post Stonewall phenomenon that began with the clone look of the 1970s and has continued on. There are of … Continue reading

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Effeminophobia Among Gay Men

Originally posted on Fairy JeriBear's Trans/LGBTQIA+ Musings From The City Different – Santa Fe, NM:
I have frequently complained about the aversion among some gay men to those amongst them that are effeminate.  In my years of identifying…

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Being “Feminine”

This video is so sad and really makes me angry. Why are we putting so much pressure on gay youth to be more masculine? Shouldn’t the message be to love yourself as you are? Any guy who is so shallow … Continue reading

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Effeminophobia Among Gay Men

I have frequently complained about the aversion among some gay men to those amongst them that are effeminate.  In my years of identifying as a gay man I saw this time and time again. I was always very annoyed by … Continue reading

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Hate in the family – effeminaphobia (effeminophobia) begins at home

Originally posted on Fairy JeriBear's Trans/LGBTQIA+ Musings From The City Different – Santa Fe, NM:
The hate I am referring to is effeminaphobia and the family is the community of LGBTQ people we sometimes refer to as “family.”…

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Protect LGBTQ Youth from Institutional Abuse! The Problem – The Petition – The Bill

This is an important issue and I am glad that it is now getting the attention it deserves. I am absolutely sick and tired of parents and their religious beliefs ruining the lives of LGBTQIA youth by rejecting their children’s … Continue reading

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Let’s All Support Morgan Ball and the #ClothingHasNoGender Protest | Styleite

Here is a story that I found interesting and disturbing. It seems a gay teen dressed up for his birthday and the school authorities reacted in a homophobic and effeminaphobic manner. This has sparked a movement hashtag #ClothingHasNoGender. Here’s the … Continue reading

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Recommended Reading: Gay Men Can’t Take Criticism | Advocate.com

This column by Michael Musto takes on the criticism that gay men are misogynistic. I understand the reaction of many to reject such criticism but there does seem to be anti-women sentiment among some gay men. This manifests itself in … Continue reading

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‘Professional Effeminate Homosexual’ Alec Mapa Is Disappointed In Russell Tovey’s Comment About Feminine Gay Men / Queerty

I have always faulted a segment of the gay male community for their effeminaphobia (fear/hatred of effeminate men). I have had to deal with this nonsense for decades. I addressed it in a post some time ago so I won’t … Continue reading

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The Fire on the 57 Bus in Oakland – NYTimes.com

I would usually post this story as a recommended link but the story is important to me personally and the New York Times can be restrictive in allowing access to stories so some may not be able to read it … Continue reading

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‘Ugly, fat and effeminate,’ US radio DJ unleashes on-air rant against Sam Smith | Gay Star News

The man who has no filter between his primitive brain and his mouth, Howard Stern, has reached a new low. I can usually tolerate what the shock jock says but this is too much. Calling Sam Smith ugly, fat and … Continue reading

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Forcing Kids To Stick To Gender Roles Can Actually Be Harmful To Their Health | ThinkProgress

I came across this article in a resource list published on the tumblr blog nonbinaryresource.tumblr.com. It looks at the harm done when kids are forced to follow rigid gender roles. The thing I hated most was all the hitting each … Continue reading

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Janet Mock, Russell Brand and more condemn Bruce Jenner InTouch cover | Gay Star News

I have been upset for some time at the number of “jokes” told by comics, late night and otherwise, at the expense of Bruce Jenner. For a couple years or more there seems to be an obsession, fueled by effeminaphobia … Continue reading

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