I really, really identify with this video! I too will never pass as female nor do I desire to. As an agender person my truth is beyond gender. I dress in female identified clothing because I happen to love skirts and pretty and cute things. I do dislike being misgendered and made to feel less than. Please watch and enjoy.
What does it mean to be feminine? When it comes to gender identity, the boundaries we draw have real consequences. Alok Vaid-Menon, one half of the trans South Asian artist duo Darkmatter, explains why everyone has a stake in challenging the gender binary. For more information on Darkmatter, visit http://www.darkmatterpoetry.com.